Hey to all my friends and family! I have missed everyone and have been so happy to see some of you since getting back from Haiti. I know some of you don’t know I’m back yet, but to make a long story short…I’m back. Ok, now to get into the story of the past couple of weeks.
During my last update, the last team to come down with Cri had just left the orphanage at Leogane. Cri as an organization decided to pull out of Haiti for a while to reassess their long term vision. Things in Haiti are starting to turn from response to recovery mode, so they needed to take a step back and decide what it would look like them to be involved in Haiti for longer periods of time. This is potentially going to involve CRI buying a house in Haiti for a smaller group of people to stay in that feel called to be in Haiti for months up to years or longer. They are also getting a shipping container filled with resources down to Haiti to be used in the recovery efforts.
The last Sunday I was down in Haiti we were at a church in Carrefour. The service was about change. The sermon notes that I took say, good leaders accept change…they accept it and rise to it and then they go through difficulties head on. Change defines opportunity, change is difficult but it’s for our own good if we learn to profit from it. Change reveals stuff in us that we otherwise wouldn’t see. If we don’t despise change and choose to embrace it then we glean from the benefits.
I had to embrace that sermon the last day that we were there. Change isn’t easy. It wasn’t easy to leave the girls we have poured so much time into. It wasn’t easy to get in the car when they are pulling me away from it asking me to stay. It wasn’t easy to explain in broken Creole that I was leaving for the states. It wasn’t easy looking into their pleading eyes and telling them that I loved each and every one of them but had to go anyway. But it was the necessary change. My prayer through this is that they learn to rely on the Lord when they are lonely or feel they need a friend. If we imparted anything, I hope that that is it…that the Lord is truly the Father to the Fatherless and that He calls them beautiful.
So now I need to backup and tell about my last week in Haiti…
The last CRI team left, the one that stayed with me two weeks at the orphanage. IN those two weeks we saw so much change in the girls, I have already touched on those stories, so I won’t retell them, but I want to! : ) So after they left we had a small group of CRI leadership still on the ground, these people being Kynada, Leasa, Johan, my dad and myself. In the last week we had before we left we had several loose ends to tie up before we left back to the states. Our first priority though was to take a break! We went up to a cabin in the mountains (Ted, the man who runs the Christian School at Quisquaya let us stay at his cabin. Thanks Ted!) to just spend time with eachother and to debrief on our time in Haiti. Everyone had such a good time hiking, we had fires in the fireplace, drank tea, worshiped, debriefed, laughed, prayed, played, ate food…just everything. I have found that debriefing is absolutely necessary. It helps to look back and see what God did, but also to see what didn’t go well and seeing how things can be improved personally and corporally. To be able to get the feelings out of happiness, sadness, joy and anger. Then we followed it all up by praying for each other and building each other up. Its times like these that I again see how blessed I was to be on a team of people that is so wholeheartedly after the Lord and that loves to pray. The leadership that was in Haiti was such a team of laid down lovers, they served and loved well. I went and learned so much from the people I was working with. They loved the unlovely…they loved those who didn’t love them back; they loved when it was hard and when it was easy. I am so thankful to have met and served alongside these people.
After our time up in the mountains we came back down and got to business. The last days that we were there we stayed with Pastor Jean (thanks pastor!) in Carrefour (forty five minutes from Leogane.) Pastor Jean’s vision is to start a house of prayer at his church there in Haiti. I am excited about seeing a house of prayer raised up in Haiti…so thankful to see the way the Lord is moving there!
The last week there we also met with the mayor of Leogane. This would have been the third time of having meetings with him. The previous meeting, we had things we needed from him. The last one we came with no agenda and also came bearing the gift of an ice cream maker. (In a previous meeting he had said how much he likes making ice cream. A lady that was at the meeting came back to the states, bought the mayor one and sent it down for him.) The mayor is definitely aware of the spiritual realm and seeing signs and wonders, but he is heavily into voodoo and definitely not a follower of Jesus…though he has much knowledge of the Lord and also the Bible. But we came just bringing the light and loving on the mayor as a person. IT was obvious that it touched him immensely.
We also searched for a house to buy in the last week, but are still praying one in.
Sunday, was the day to say goodbye to my girls and then we had to go back home. It was important for me to go back and say goodbye to them well. I was able to do that. We were there for a couple hours, you would have thought that the queen herself had come…they were so excited to see us and I them. There were so many hugs, shouting out of glee, laughter and joy. There were many pictures taken, addresses exchanged, playing, sitting and enjoying each other. It really was like coming back home. The goodbye, like I said earlier was really hard for me. I put it off until the ride got there then I went to each of them and said I loved them and goodbye. As I said goodbye to my friend Dashka, who is also the cook, I started crying. She saw the tears in my eyes, and said, “you cry.” Then she started feeding me…she can make anyone laugh. So we all walked away with goat meat, rice, double fried plantain and her yummy sauce. Not usually the way that I deal with sadness…but that was her Band-Aid for me. : ) There were more hugs, tears, snot, kisses, and more hugs to top that off and then we had to go. The girls know that when groups come to the orphanage, that they also have to go. But what remained behind was love, and like I said before my prayer is that they have learned to rely on the Father to fill them up.
And now I’m home. The biggest questions I’ve had since being back are, are you going back? And also, what are you doing next? The answer that covers them both are, I don’t know. I love the girls there and am very willing to go back. I feel that I probably will go back to visit sometime, but I don’t feel called to go long term. My hearts cry is for someone to go into the orphanage and be there constantly for them. To be the constant rock, to pray when they need prayer, to help take care of the girls, to train them up in prayer, arts, the prophetic. I don’t feel that’s what God wants me to do though, which is so weird because I love them so much. Right now I’m just waiting on the Lord and asking what next. I feel like He is working on defining part of my long term vision for missions, which can change, but it will give me a long term p.goal to work for.
Whenever I go somewhere I don’t get hit with culture shock near as bad as reverse culture shock. There are things I have so enjoyed back here in the states that we don’t have in Haiti. Like a hot shower…the first shower I took back here was forty-five minutes long, instead of the three minute showers or bucket baths. After I washed my body and hair, I just stood there in the warm water…then I started feeling bad for wasting water, so I just washed my hair again…and was so thankful to Jesus the whole time. I love U.S. plumbing and still have to think twice as to if I should throw my tp in the garbage can or not. I love having easy conversation with everyone.
But I do miss the people. I miss the transportation down there…wherever you went it would always be with many people, never just driving by yourself in a car. Having two months of such commrodary, when everyone is going for the same goal and working for the same purpose, then coming back and everyone is dispersed…its tough.
The Lord’s helping me through though. I’ve been visiting my family at the house of prayer in KC and just soaking up Jesus. I’ve spent many hours in the prayer room and also with my running shoes on taking runs or walks. Its been so refreshing to see some of the people at services or gatherings and being able to give em a squeeze. But, that to is also part of the necessary change that should be embraced. God has a time and a season for everything and everyone. I learned and have grown so much through my time in Haiti. I made several good friends and have 50 little sisters thinking and praying for me in Haiti and I them. God has given me new desire and compassion to help the orphans in the nations, and new love for Him and others.
So, all of this to say, thank you everyone. Thank you for praying for me. Thank you for your friendship. Thank you for loving well. Thank you for your support. Thank you for reading my updates. Just thank you…and I love you all.